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SUDC Insights is the official blog of the SUDC Foundation which shares and discusses issues important to the understanding and the ultimate prevention of SUDC. If you have questions or issues you would like to see addressed in SUDC Insights, please let us know at sudcinsights@sudc.org.

Parenting after Loss-Perspective of a Mother and Pediatrician

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When my son Conor died suddenly and unexpectedly at the age of 17 months, my world was shattered- both as a mother and as a pediatrician. I was forever changed. My daughter was 2 at the time and I soon realized that parenting was a new journey. There was the added complexity of being a pediatrician and trying to balance what I knew from my training and experience with the gaping unknown. There was nothing in my pediatric training or experience that prepared me to deal with the loss of my son and how to parent my surviving and subsequent children. I realized that just as I could not be the same parent I was, the medical care for my children would not follow the same path. The following is my perspective on this new parenting journey, from the eyes of a mother and physician.

When Your Sister or Brother Dies- Sibling Bereavement Support Suggestions Part I- Immediate Care

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Losing a child is one of the most horrible situations a parent has to face, but that does not lessen the significant effect the loss has on their surviving siblings. It is not only the parents that grieve. A living brother or sister also loses a part of themselves. They lose the laughter echoing in the family room or sharing the mashed potatoes at the kitchen table. They lose a partner in their video games or a sneaky little shadow following them around the playground. A sibling’s grief is real, emotionally significant and worthy of attention.

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