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Grief is a natural process of emotions that occurs when someone dies. Grief integrates into normal routines at variable timeframes for each person. It can be an intense, lonely, and personal experience. No two people will experience the death of a child the same way. A sudden, unexpected death of a child is different from any other death because children are “not supposed to die.” The death is incomprehensible.
There is no right or wrong way to grieve. When your child dies, not only does the death destroy the dreams and hope you had as parents, but it also forces your family to face an event for which you are not prepared. Many parents wonder if they will be able to tolerate the pain, to survive it and be able to feel that life has meaning again. Grief can have its ups and downs. Intense reactions may return on specific dates (birthdays, holidays, anniversaries, etc.), or in connection with milestone events (moving from the home where the child died, the growth of a subsequent sibling beyond the age of the child that died, etc). As time moves on, the pain from grief becomes less sharp and more integrated into your life. Happiness does return, very, very slowly at first. At some point you begin to laugh and to appreciate life again. You are a changed person and will never be the same. Family, friends, and your community at large can help you to slowly start your journey to healing.